bassiter:

being a top or bottom or switch means exclusively just whether you prefer to do the penetration or to get penetrated during gay sex, it has nothing to do with how you behave in other aspects of a relationship, how clingy or distant you are, who texts first, etc, and it most certainly is NOT defined by how feminine or masculine someone is. it’s not even necessarily defined by how sexually dominant or submissive someone is, as there are power bottoms and service tops. it’s literally JUST who’s giving it and who’s getting it and it’s generally only even relevant during penetretive sex! that’s IT! i’m genuinely begging yall to STOP trying to make it mean anything else, ESPECIALLY anything non-sexual bc now there’s literal children calling themselves tops just for being extroverted or whatever the fuck and it needs to end like now holy shit

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